I notice that it’s a predominantly Asian staff that caters to older men, probably a lot from a previous generation that is used to doing things on the sly. I live down the street from this place, and it’s pretty explicit who this spa caters to and it’s not really all that shocking that this happens. (Because theoretically, no gay would ever go to a place like this to get his rocks off). In a fantastical utopian world where we exist exactly as equals to straights…I can see how the masseur’s behavior would be shocking and upsetting. To be completely honest this story angers me because it feels like a betrayal on the gay community. But keep that arbitrary social construct of hetero-normative life away from me. Props to anyone who wants to lead a prude-y, straight and narrow lifestyle…go ahead marry that one guy, stay monogamous and adopt/in-vitro some kids…more power to you. I can’t stand this new generation who feel assimilation and *disappearance* into straight culture is the thing to strive for. You don’t have to do that.” And we move on. If the therapist starts to pay more attention to my genitals than I want I just calmly say, “That’s okay. I know then that my whole body is going to get the attention I want.
![best nyc gay massage best nyc gay massage](https://www.tripsavvy.com/thmb/8WafpXDDqsYSAVypISsomLcgtOs=/2121x1193/smart/filters:no_upscale()/GettyImages-848324480-59e8b9b3685fbe0011a2c443.jpg)
I go to the privately owned massage places where they offer to cover you with only a towel, and are perfectly willing to not cover you at all if you request it. They wrap you up like a mummy, and uncover only the one body part they are working on, and mostly don’t even touch the middle third of your body. I stopped going to chain massage spas or hotel spas a long time ago. Arnau loves being a victim and all the attention he is getting from this. I don’t believe for one moment that Arnau didn’t walk into that spa with the intent of doing exactly what he did.
![best nyc gay massage best nyc gay massage](https://malemassagenyc.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Gay-Massage-New-York.png)
It could be said here that Arnau’s silence was consent. Having said that, Tian may have crossed that line, but Arnau, by his own admission, did nothing to communicate what he wanted. But just having touched it while the masseur is doing his job is no reason for any guy to be upset. Lingering there is the fine line that may be crossed, and if the client doesn’t want any more contact with his penis than would come from the masseur doing his job while working on the inner thigh and pelvis, he can indicate that.
![best nyc gay massage best nyc gay massage](https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Cgmz5hHWwAABteN.jpg)
Even in a non-sexual massage there may be contact with the penis. There are muscles all the way up the inner thigh that for a complete and non-sexual massage should be massaged. The services I provide are best suited for Men who are height-weight proportionate and exercise regularly.There are muscles in the glutes (the ass) that absolutely should be massaged. I use top grade massage oil, soft light, aromatherapy and clean linens. My dedicated workspace is private and air conditioned with a hot shower. I believe that healing touch is an essential and necessary element for all Men to unwind, disconnect, relieve sore muscles, reduce stress, boost libido, enhance relaxation and promote positive well-being. I rebalance the body’s energy and take it from a place of stress to one of deep relaxation, pleasure and euphoria. Whether you long for a relaxing, sensual session or perhaps for a stronger, more vigorous massage, I am ready to take care of your needs with my wide range of experience and dexterous hands. Let my experience and approach take you to a deep, intense level of relaxation and pleasure. 5 bdrm, 4 bath rustic mansion with spectacular view, Great Room with stone fireplace. Feeling all your stress and tension just fade away from your body and mind is an incredible feeling.
#BEST NYC GAY MASSAGE PROFESSIONAL#
Whether it's your first time booking a professional M4M Male massage or not, you've come to the right therapist! Getting a massage is a true joy worth experiencing.